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My Three Biggest Struggles When Writing

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We all have those things that grate at us. Those obstacles that inconvenience our greatest of ambitions.

It may come as a shock to all of you reading this, but I too am only human and thus am not above such disadvantages.

As a person born into the human race, I’m already designated my own sets of flaws and those flaws can create impediments in my life both emotionally, physically, and mentally. This is normal. This is what we all go through. However, when I started writing, I realized I had a whole new set of struggles and problems that I didn’t even know existed until I took up this gig.

1: Distractions

I did pretty good in school, up until maybe tenth grade when I started failing in math. But most other subjects I aced and excelled and never had a problem paying attention or focusing on my studies. So it came as a surprise to me now that I’m an adult and trying to start a career in writing just how distracted I get by everything.

The internet has been no aid to me in this endeavor mind you. An endless plethora of information and activity, you could easily lose yourself for hours. One minute it’s 9 am and you’re just briefly checking your Twitter feed and the next minute it’s 6 pm and you’re watching a YouTube tutorial on how to make a paper hat.

I know. I’m weak.

But I’m happy to say I’ve learned to deal with this through scheduling and taking notes. To avoid the chance of being distracted, I write down on a sticky note what it is I need to research. I then continue on as far as I can with my story. I have set times for when I write and a set time for research. Once I reach my word count goal, I then pick up my notes and do the needed research.

As for outside distractions, I usually play some classical music to drown out any noises and sit in my writing place. If the distractions are still to much, it must not be in the cards today and I go find a cave to meditate in for three weeks.

2: Self-Doubt

This is something that I know we all have from time to time. Unfortunately it can be a real problem for me as it steals my motivation. I question my self, my abilities, and everything I’ve ever known.

I can’t say there is a “cure” for this. Or at least, I can’t say I found it. Self-doubt lingers there and comes up at the worst times, but when it comes, I have discovered methods for fighting it.

First, I read. Looking at the works of others gives me inspiration. I feel more confident knowing these people were all once where I was- unpublished, unknown, and probably really confused.

Second, I keep a list of my goals. When I start to feel uncertain, I reread that to myself. It keeps me on point, reminding me what I should be focused on, and what it is I’m striving for.

3: Overload

I have trouble sleeping. No matter how hard I work physically my brain goes and goes and goes nonstop, which tends to keep me up late. I’m always thinking about what I could do, what I should do, recalling bits of information I heard here and there, and forming ideas for stories, art, or whatever it is I’m currently dealing with in life. I tend to find myself multitasking on various projects, sometimes even working on editing one story while writing two or three others. I keep going and going until eventually my mind get’s so overworked that I throw my hands in the air and find myself binge watching TV just to get my brain to turn off.

Obviously, not a healthy lifestyle.

However, as of late, I’ve been doing much better thanks to the power of scheduling. Routines may sound boring, but trust me, if you have a mind that tends to impatiently overwork itself then a schedule is your best friend.

Whenever I get a new idea, I write it down. I put it in my binder where I keep all my writing stuff and I go back to what I was previously working. I plan at the beginning of the week which story I’m going to be working on and a set a word count or amount of time for each day.

Trust me; organization is key. You might not like it at first, you might rather roll with it and have a billion and ten excuses why you can’t adhere to a schedule, but trust me, it makes life easier.

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So there you go. My top three biggest struggles as a writer. Maybe you can relate. Maybe you have other ways of coping that work better for you. Or maybe you have other obstacles you face. Feel free to tell me all about it in the comment section. Maybe we can all help each other.

If you expect life to be easy, challenges will seem difficult. If you accept that challenges may occur, life will be easier.

Rob Liano

Finding the Motivation

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Sometimes motivation finds you.

But usually not.

If you’re a writer, then I guarantee you’ve said this before.

“I just can’t find the motivation to write today.”

First off, I disagree with notion that writer’s block doesn’t exist. It does. Because writing is not a typical career as it requires a level of creativity and a mind for focus, writer’s block is simply the inability to get that flow going for a period of time.

“Well if you’re a doctor, you don’t have doctor’s block.”

Correct, because being a doctor is not the same as being a writer. It requires a different level of intelligence and thinking.

However, I don’t believe all writer’s block is real writer’s block. There’s a difference between “unable” and “not having motivation to”. Both are common struggles but there are cures for them.

First, let’s define writer’s block; it’s kind of like when someone asks you to name a song you like just off the top of your head and suddenly, you can’t remember any song to ever exist. That’s kind of what writer’s block is. You sit down at the keyboard, you do the work, but you just can’t get the creative flow going. Your mind locks up and the page remains blank.

Lack of motivation is different. This is where you just don’t “feel” like you have it in you today. Maybe you had a stressful week or a sleepless night or what have you. Point is, you begrudgingly glare at the computer and make a billion and ten excuses why you can’t write today.

Hey, it happens. Question is, how do you find motivation once you lose it.

Ultimately you know yourself the best. It helps to figure out where the block is coming from. Are you losing motivation due to stress? Maybe you’re tired. Maybe it’s self doubt. Whatever it is, once you figure out the source you’re more likely to get over it. However, if you can’t trace it, then here’s some tips that might help you get your mojo back.

Read A Book: This might give you inspiration and where inspiration is motivation generally follows

Physical Activity: Sometimes we get a little low and a light jog can help. Especially if you can do it outdoors. Plus, it might give you a sense of accomplishment which will build confidence- confidence is also a key component for motivation

Eat a Healthy Snack: Again, this might help you feel better. Being hungry can affect your moods, so something light might give you a bit of energy to get some writing done.

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Music: Have some favorites? Use them to sort of give you a “pick me up”.

Take A Nap: If you’re tired, don’t try to work your way through it. Go ahead and rest a bit, by else, you’ll spend the entire time muddling through and getting frustrated when you can’t concentrate.

Go Back Through Your Old Writing: This can help you see how far you’ve come and how much you’ve improved, once again building confidence.

Remind Yourself Of Your Goals: Get excited again. Remind yourself of what you want and make sure you’ve got a deadline. Sometimes having a accountability partner helps.

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Don’t wait for motivation to find you, it rarely does. Most people have to dig deep to get it. Motivation usually comes through necessity but since most of us aren’t career writers yet, writing is more like a dream and not something we have to do, thus we don’t feel compelled to keep at it.

Fret not. You’ve got in you, but you have to pull it out. If all else fails the best thing for you to do is to keep writing. Write something. Anything. Even if it’s a bad poem or one line of a story, just write. It will prove to yourself that you’re serious and that you’re not quitting. And that’s the important thing. To make sure you don’t give up.


All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them

Walt Disney

Telling Tale

The Difference Between A Storyteller and a Novelist

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I’m actually surprised by how many people don’t know the difference between telling a story and writing a novel.

Big difference.

Not to say either one is bad. Because both have their advantages and disadvantages depending on the circumstances. But they are distinctively different.

Storyteller: People with this gift tend to writing awesome short stories. They are more focused on the point, getting right to the nitty-gritty. They don’t tend to be very in depth though. You may find the characters interesting, however, you probably won’t feel overly attached.

Novelist: These people tend to fill their stories with a lot of prose and subtlety. You get a deeper, lengthier story. However, try to get a novelist to write something under 50,000 words and you might as well ask a fish to join a 5K.

I find I tend to lean more to a novelist. When writing fiction, I tend to be more abstract and thus my stories tend to be more complex. However, as I’m trying to write a few short stories, I’m struggling to keep things short and sweet.

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Keep in mind when you’re writing a novel the rules of “showing vs. telling”. It’s one of the first things you’ll learn about in the writing world. Novelist tend to show things through emotion, prose, and action, while storytellers lean more to the telling side (hence storytellers). Meaning, instead of saying “Susan kicked the door shut, the harsh slam rattling the entire house” a storyteller would simply say “Susan was angry“. Both have a time and place.

If you’re a storyteller, you have the advantage of seeing things exactly the way they are. You probably don’t bore people with a lot of poetic displays or take too long describing a thing. You give us the facts. That’s great. Sometimes I like that. If you’re a novelist, you see things in different lights, through different lenses, and incorporate what is seen through all the senses. Both are needed and both are beautiful.

It’s important to know where you strengths lie. It’s not to say a novelist can’t become a storyteller or vice versa, but it just means you may run into a few struggles along the way. Regardless, it’s your style and so it’s your story.

It’s up to you to decide how we get to see it.

Storytellers don’t show, they tell. I’m sticking with that


Ashly Lorenzana

Create a world in front of your readers where they can taste, smell, touch, hear, see, and move. Or else they are likely going to move on to another book


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